I believe that if they are not the best people, there should be no such connection. Both ladies and gentlemen should be clear about what they want, learn what they need to learn, and choose the right people for effective and productive negotiation.well I think as a lady is might be easier for you because a lady are likely to receive consideration from people in a society than a man because they know the ladies are harmless, you think anyone can succeed in this area without connecting with the top people ?